I'm one of the 'guests' who have commented on this topic, i am miffed at just what you would do viv if you had my name? its exactly that kind of attitude that made me decide not to use my name in the first place!!!! If other people's opinions bother you so much all i can say is you need to 'chill' RUDE is something i most definately am NOT, and in a world of free speach my last word on this subject is "if the cap fits, you wear it".