You're too sensetive Janis luvver. I don't even know what you mean. I love a bit of abuse humour. Eggy and Dimitris do it to me frequently, and I just laugh. If you can't take a joke don't make one.
I am the same though. I wake up and remember (or get told about) something that embarasses me and my face goes hot and red. Well it used to.
When the lovely PaulC 's lovely wife Di asked me "have you found your legs yet" I should have gone red but no, I didn't. Just accepted that it was us. We had spent the afternoon in the Nut with riggers and was all but carried home by Jen.
Our place is about that - joy, calm, peace, fun, happiness, excitement, friendship, hedonism....
You already know what I'm on about.
lovandhugs
Phil