John, just because I can sometimes sound like a saint, I am not. And you know better than almost anyone.
I was once part of the bonus culture, getting paid an extra 25% for meeting the budget and up to 50% of my whole year's salary for very little more. I was (financially) rich then, but sat in my Working Man's Club (CIU) one Sunday afternoon and wrote my resignation letter.
Now I am relatively poor (financially) but rich beyond my wildest dreams. I struggle to afford my times in Arillas, but even when I am not there I have dreams and memories which sure me and my Jen up. The forum and Facebook help with that, but in the end I (hope we) have something more than money. We have Arillas and the real, true friends there who care for us. Jen will read this in a few days time and respond.
Phil
PS she will describe me as a silly old sod, and be perfectly accurate.