Hi, kaloudis will offer everything you describe, small, friendly, safe, great pool, 50 yards from the beach, shop, bar, pool and darts and so much more... If you want table tennis then Acti hotel has a table, that's about 5 min walk away with many other gaming option inc water sports, canoes etc on the sea front. Theses even a play centre for the smaller children at Mirage also on the front.
But nothing can really prepare you for just how warm and welcoming, chilled and relaxing Arillas is..
We had friends staying in Sidari this year, we brought them over to Arillas for the night and were amazed at how different and relaxed the place is.
Have a great time and enjoy!
Martin